Small Group Bible Study · All Ages Welcome

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An eight-session study through the Gospel of Luke, built for families and small groups. Open the guide, gather, and let the Word do its work.

Gospel of Luke
90 min · Every other week
All ages welcome
8 sessions
"For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost." (Luke 19:10)  ·  Knowing Jesus · 2026
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Study Guide · Small Group Edition

Welcome

An eight-session study through the Gospel of Luke, built for families who want to know Jesus together.

2026 focus

Knowing Jesus, a year-long focus on knowing Jesus as a person, not just learning about Him.

About this study

This study is built around one mission: helping your family truly know Jesus and stay rooted in Him, day by day. A real, daily relationship with Him is the root; love that reaches others is the fruit. Each session works through a passage from Luke and asks one question: What does this moment in Jesus' life mean for our family today?

Sessions meet every other week. The two-week gap is intentional, it gives families time to try the at-home exercises, reflect on Scripture, and bring real stories back to the group.

Our mission

Families knowing Jesus. Not just individuals. Couples, parents, and households who want Jesus to be as real at the dinner table on Tuesday as He is in the room tonight.

90-minute session flow
0–5 min
Arrival and icebreaker
10–20 min
Scripture reading aloud
20–30 min
Group activity
30–60 min
Discussion, 5 questions, family & outward
60–75 min
Between-sessions exercise preview
75–85 min
Real-world connection + homework
What every session includes
Icebreaker

A warm-up that builds relationships, not just Bible knowledge.

Readings

A Luke passage with supporting Scripture, linked to the YouVersion app.

Group activity

A ten-minute activity tied to the theme of the session.

Family discussion

Questions that connect Jesus to marriage, parenting, and daily life.

Outward focus

Every session asks how this moves beyond the room.

Christ exercise

A three-day practice between sessions to build a daily relationship with Jesus.

Session schedule

Sessions meet every other week. The gap is the point, it gives families time to practice and return with real stories.

#ThemePrimary passageSupporting
1Who Is Jesus to Our Family?Orientation - No Reading-
2The Announced SaviorLuke 1–2Isa 9:6 · Mic 5:2 · John 1
3Identity & TemptationLuke 3–4Rom 8:15 · Heb 4:15
4The God Who SeesLuke 5, 7–8John 4 · Isa 53:3
5Kingdom Upside DownLuke 9–10, 12Matt 5:3–12 · Phil 4:11
6Radical GraceLuke 15–16Rom 5:8 · Eph 2:4
7Road to the CrossLuke 19–23Isa 53 · Heb 12:2
8He Is Risen - Now What?Luke 241 Cor 15 · Acts 1:8
Session One · Orientation Bi-weekly

Who Is Jesus to Our Family?

Before we open Scripture, we open ourselves, and begin building real community.

90 min
Luke 1:1–4 · No full reading
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Lord Jesus, we gather tonight as families who want to know You. Not just know about You, but truly know You. As we begin this study of Luke, we invite You into this room and into our homes. May what we share draw our families closer to You and to one another. Amen.
For the facilitator

This first prayer sets the tone: you are inviting Jesus into the room before anyone has to perform or impress. Read it slowly and unhurried, so people feel permission to simply arrive. Many will be nervous on night one, and a calm, warm voice does more than the words themselves. Afterward let a beat of silence sit before you move on; do not rush to fill it. Greet each household by name as they settle, because being named is the first step to belonging. A simple text the next morning ("So glad your family came") turns a first night into the start of a real friendship.

Icebreaker, Relationship Builder (5 min)

Family Superlatives

Each family shares one funny and one real "Most likely to…" about their household:

  • Most likely to pray before a meal... even at the drive-through?
  • Most likely to still be up at midnight reading Scripture - or scrolling?
  • Most likely to invite a stranger to dinner this week?
For the facilitator

Laughter is the fastest way to lower walls, which is exactly why this comes early. The aim is not the jokes but the sense that this is a safe place to be known. Go first with your own family so others see the vulnerability is shared. If a household is shy, offer them the lighter prompt rather than the deeper one. Watch for the quiet teenager and gently invite, never force, a word from them. Notice who clicks with whom tonight; those budding friendships are worth nurturing between sessions. Next time you could hand this segment to an outgoing couple to lead and make their own.

Background & Context

Who Was Luke - and Why Does It Matter?

Luke was a Gentile physician - the only non-Jewish author in the entire Bible. He wrote his Gospel for Theophilus (whose name means "Lover of God"), likely a Roman official who was new to faith. Luke's purpose was precise: to give an orderly, carefully investigated account of Jesus' life so that his reader would have certainty about what he had been taught (Luke 1:3–4). He interviewed eyewitnesses. He gathered testimony. He wrote like a doctor - methodical, compassionate, attentive to detail.

More than any other Gospel, Luke shows us a Jesus who moves toward the overlooked: women, children, the poor, outsiders, Gentiles, sinners. This is the Gospel most shaped by grace extended to those who didn't expect it. For families navigating a complex, divided, distracted world - Luke is exactly the right place to encounter Jesus.

Why "Knowing Jesus" Is This Year's Focus

This study's 2026 initiative - Knowing Jesus - is rooted in Paul's prayer in Philippians 3:10: "That I may know Him." Not know about Him. Not know His teachings intellectually. Know Him - as a living Person. This study is built on that same hunger. We're not studying a religion. We're pursuing a relationship that changes how we parent, how we love, how we lead our homes, and how we engage our neighborhoods.

For the facilitator

This is the teaching anchor, giving families confidence that Luke is trustworthy, eyewitness history rather than legend. Read it warmly, like a story you love, not a lecture. You do not need to cover every line; pick the detail that lights you up and let it carry. To keep people engaged, pause and ask, "Why do you think a doctor would notice the overlooked?" and let a few answer. Drawing out a quieter member can be as simple as, "What stood out to you in that?" If someone in the group loves history or research, invite them to prepare and present this section in a future week.

Scripture Reading (10 min)

No full reading tonight - just a brief orientation passage. Have someone read aloud.

For the facilitator

Hearing Scripture aloud together is its own act of worship, so treat it as more than a transition. Inviting someone other than yourself to read shares ownership and signals that this is everyone's study, not a performance by the leader. Choose a confident reader tonight, but make a mental note of others you can invite as trust grows. Let the words land before you speak; resist narrating over them. A short follow-up like, "What word jumped out as you listened?" keeps it personal. Between sessions you might text the passage to the group midweek so the Word stays in front of them.

Group Activity - Index Cards (10 min)

Where Are You Right Now?

Give each family an index card. Each person writes privately:

  • One word for where they are with Jesus right now
  • One hope for what this study might do for their family

Collect the cards. They will be returned at Session 8. Do not share them aloud tonight.

For the facilitator

This quiet exercise gives every person, even the most reluctant, a way to be honest with God without being put on the spot. Guard the privacy fiercely; reassure them no one reads these, and that they return at Session 8, which builds anticipation across the whole study. Move around the room calmly so no one feels watched while they write. The aim underneath is honesty before Jesus, so model it by writing your own card too. Store the cards somewhere safe and reliable. A gentle reminder before the next gathering ("Still praying over what you wrote") keeps the thread of connection alive.

Discussion (30 min)
  1. Family When you hear the phrase "knowing Jesus" - what's the first thing that comes to mind? Knowing facts about Him, or something more personal?
  2. Family What is one thing your family does really well together? What is one area where you'd love to grow in the next few months?
  3. Outward Luke wrote his Gospel so that Theophilus would have certainty about what he believed. Is there someone in your neighborhood or network who has questions about Jesus? What would it look like to walk alongside them?
  4. Family What do you hope changes in your home by the end of this eight-week study?
  5. Outward As you grow closer to Jesus, His life starts to flow through you to others. What would loving someone on your street actually look like this week?
For the facilitator

This is the heart of the night, where relationships and faith deepen together. Your job is not to teach but to draw out, so ask the question and then wait; count to ten silently before rescuing the room. Follow-ups like "Say more about that" or "Has anyone else felt this?" open the door wider. Protect the conversation from the talkers by warmly turning to someone quiet: "I would love to hear your take." The Outward questions stretch the group beyond itself, so do not skip them. Afterward, remember one thing each person shared and follow up personally during the week; being remembered is how people come to feel they belong.

Closing Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Father, thank You for every family in this room and their courage to show up. Go with each household into the next two weeks. Quiet the noise. Open our hearts. Make Jesus as real at our dinner tables as He is in this room tonight. In Jesus' name, Amen.
For the facilitator

The closing sends families home carrying the night with them, so it matters as much as the opening. Read it as a blessing over real households, not a formality. Before you pray, you might invite one or two brief prayer requests so people leave feeling carried by the group. Let the room be still afterward rather than rushing to goodbyes. Lingering a few minutes over coffee is where some of the deepest connection happens, so build in time for it. In a future session, consider asking a different family to write and lead the closing prayer; it grows their ownership and confidence.

Session Two · Luke 1–2 Bi-weekly

The Announced Savior

700 years of prophecy. One teenage girl. An ordinary home. The most extraordinary birth in history.

90 min
Luke 1–2
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:God of surprise and promise. You sent Your Son into an ordinary family in an obscure village, and nothing in history was ever the same. Meet us here tonight. Open our eyes to see You the way Mary and the shepherds did, as the One who breaks in unexpectedly. Amen.
For the facilitator

This prayer reorients tired families toward a God of surprise, which is the spiritual aim of the whole night. By session two some people are still finding their footing, so a warm, expectant tone tells them it is safe to hope here. Read it as though you genuinely believe God will break in tonight, because that belief is contagious. Pause briefly after the Amen and let people breathe. If a regular is missing, this is the moment to mention you noticed and will check on them. A quick "We prayed for your family tonight" text to anyone absent keeps the circle intact between gatherings.

Icebreaker (5 min)

"Our Family's Most Unexpected Moment"

Each family shares: One time something completely unexpected happened in your household that changed your plans - or your life. Was it good, hard, or both? 60 seconds per family. This opens the theme of God showing up in ordinary homes uninvited and unannounced.

For the facilitator

Stories of the unexpected open hearts and prime the theme without anyone realizing they are being set up for the teaching. Keep it to sixty seconds each so the quieter families are not left waiting through long monologues. If someone shares a hard memory, honor it with a simple "thank you for trusting us with that" rather than rushing past. Going first yourself, with something a little vulnerable, gives everyone else permission. Listen for the threads that connect households; you can gently reconnect two families later who shared something similar. Next time you might ask a different family to bring the icebreaker prompt, letting them help shape the night.

Background & Context

The World Into Which Jesus Was Born

Israel had waited 400 years in prophetic silence - no prophet, no word from God - since Malachi. The Jewish people lived under brutal Roman occupation. Heavy taxation, political humiliation, and violent oppression were daily realities. Many had stopped expecting anything to change. Into this hopeless exhaustion, God sends an angel - not to Rome, not to Jerusalem's Temple, not to a palace. He sends Gabriel to Nazareth, a rural backwater village so obscure that Nathanael later asked, "Can anything good come out of Nazareth?" (John 1:46). And He speaks to a teenage girl from an ordinary family.

This was not a mistake. It was the point. Luke is establishing from the very first chapter that God's greatest work moves through the small, the humble, and the overlooked. Mary's response - "Let it be to me according to your word" - is one of the most significant sentences in all of Scripture. In a moment that could have shattered her reputation, ended her engagement, and brought social shame, she said yes. She didn't fully understand. She simply trusted.

The Magnificat - A Revolutionary Song

Mary's Song (Luke 1:46–55) is one of the most politically and theologically charged passages in the New Testament. Drawing directly from Hannah's prayer in 1 Samuel 2, Mary declares that the coming of Jesus will scatter the proud, bring down rulers, lift up the humble, and send the rich away empty. This was not safe language under Roman rule. It was a declaration that a new Kingdom was arriving - one that inverted every existing power structure. Mary sang this not after the resurrection, not after any miracle - but while still pregnant, on the basis of a promise alone. Her faith preceded any evidence. This is the model Luke sets for every family in this study.

The Shepherds - Why God Chose Them First

In first-century Jewish culture, shepherds were considered ceremonially unclean and socially unreliable - their testimony wasn't even accepted in court. God announced the birth of His Son to the people no court would believe. This was not accidental. It announced what the entire Gospel of Luke would demonstrate: Jesus came for exactly the people the world has written off. For families today navigating feelings of inadequacy, failure, or invisibility - the shepherds' story hits home. God ran to them first.

For the facilitator

There is a lot of rich material here, so resist the urge to teach all three boxes evenly; choose the one that most moves you and let the others be optional. The aim is wonder, not information, so tell it like the staggering story it is. Break up the teaching with a question such as, "Why do you think God chose a teenager and some shepherds?" and let people wrestle with it. For a quiet member, a low-stakes invite like "Does that surprise you?" works well. If someone has a gift for teaching, this is an ideal segment to hand off in a coming week, with your encouragement and prep alongside them.

Scripture Reading (10 min)

Read the primary passage aloud together, then the supporting verses.

For the facilitator

This is a longer reading, so spread it across several voices rather than one; passing the passage around makes the Word feel like it belongs to the whole room. Assign the references before you start so there is no awkward scramble. Choose the Annunciation and the birth as the must-reads if time is short. Let the famous lines breathe; people have heard them at Christmas, but hearing them slowly in this setting can land freshly. Ask afterward, "Did anything sound different tonight?" Inviting a teenager or a newer member to read one passage is a gentle way to draw them in and grow their confidence.

Group Activity - The Silence Game (10 min)

400 Years of Silence

Set a timer for 60 seconds. Sit in complete silence. No phones. No talking.

When the timer ends, ask: "That was one minute. God was silent for 400 years between Malachi and Matthew. How do you hold onto faith when God feels quiet?"

Let families respond briefly - this sets up the discussion.

For the facilitator

The silence is doing the work here, so do not undercut it by chatting through the minute; sit in it with them and let it feel slightly uncomfortable. That discomfort is the point, opening up real talk about seasons when God feels quiet. When the timer ends, leave space before anyone answers; the first words often come from someone wrestling honestly, and that honesty blesses the whole group. Draw out a quiet member with "What was that minute like for you?" Many in the room are living through their own silent stretch. A midweek note acknowledging that ("Praying for you in the quiet seasons") can mean a great deal.

Discussion (30 min)
  1. Family Mary said yes to something that would cost her everything - her reputation, her engagement, her plans. Has your family ever said yes to something that felt impossible? What happened?
  2. Family The shepherds - the first people told about Jesus' birth - were legally inadmissible as witnesses in court. Why do you think God chose them? What does that say about who Jesus came for?
  3. Outward Isaiah wrote "a child will be born" 700 years before it happened. How does that kind of fulfilled prophecy affect your confidence in who Jesus claimed to be?
  4. Family Mary's song declares that God scatters the proud, lifts up the humble, and fills the hungry. Where does your family see those values in tension with what your neighborhood or workplace celebrates?
  5. Outward The angels said "good news of great joy for all the people." All. Who in your community might feel like the good news wasn't meant for them?
For the facilitator

These questions move families from Mary's costly yes toward their own. Resist answering your own questions; your silence after asking is what invites others in. When a household shares a time they said yes to the impossible, you are building shared history that bonds the group. Use follow-ups like "How did that change you?" to go deeper rather than wider. Watch the Outward questions especially, since they push the group to think of neighbors who feel left out; do not let those get skipped for time. Note the names people mention, and ask about that neighbor when you check in before the next session.

Closing Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Lord, You came to an ordinary family in a forgotten town and extraordinary things unfolded. We offer You our ordinary households tonight. Our full calendars, our tired routines, our quiet hopes. Do it again. Make the extraordinary ordinary for us. In Jesus' name, Amen.
For the facilitator

This closing hands families their ordinary lives back as the very place God works, which is the takeaway you want them carrying home. Pray it over them with conviction, not as a wrap-up line. Consider inviting people to name one ordinary thing they want God to meet this fortnight, then gather those into your prayer so everyone feels held. Do not bolt for the door afterward; the unhurried minutes that follow are where friendships actually form. Encourage families to text one another during the two weeks. In a future session, you might ask a parent and child to lead the closing together, growing both their ownership of the group.

Session Three · Luke 3–4 Bi-weekly

Identity & Temptation

Before Jesus did one miracle, God declared who He was. That identity held everything.

90 min
Luke 3–4
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Father, before Jesus did anything, You said: You are My beloved Son. I am well pleased. Speak that same truth over every person in this room tonight. Remind us who we are before we perform a single thing. Ground our families in identity, not achievement. Amen.
For the facilitator

Tonight's whole theme is worth that comes before performance, and this prayer plants that seed before a word of teaching. Read it personally, as though God is saying "beloved" over each face in the room, because some in your group rarely hear that. Slow down on the line about achievement; many parents are exhausted by it and need it to land. Let quiet follow. If anyone seems weary or discouraged as they arrive, a private word that you are glad they came speaks volumes. A short midweek message reminding someone "You are loved before you do a single thing" can carry the prayer into their week.

Icebreaker (5 min)

"Labels We Carry"

Each person (adults and kids) shares: one label the world puts on me (busy parent, high achiever, the one who struggles) - and one label God might use for them instead. This directly opens the session's theme. You may be surprised what your children say.

For the facilitator

Naming the labels we carry surfaces real hearts quickly and sets up the teaching on identity. Some answers may be tender, so receive each one warmly and never tease, especially when a child is brave enough to share. Go first and name a label you wrestle with; your honesty gives everyone permission to be real. Make sure children get a turn, since their answers often unlock the adults. If the room is quiet, start with the playful prompt before the deeper one. Note who shared something heavy, and follow up gently in the week. Next time, a parent who is comfortable could lead this and invite their own kids first.

Background & Context

The Baptism - Why God Spoke Before Jesus Did Anything

In the ancient Jewish world, a person's identity was entirely tied to what they did - their lineage, their obedience to Torah, their role in the community. Performance and position defined worth. Against that backdrop, what happens at Jesus' baptism is staggering: before Jesus heals anyone, teaches anyone, or performs a single miracle, the Father speaks from heaven and declares His identity. "You are my beloved Son. With You I am well pleased." Full approval. Full delight. Zero track record yet.

The Greek word for "beloved" here is agapetos - used in the ancient world for an only, uniquely precious child. It is the same root as agape, the unconditional love that defines God's character. This wasn't encouragement before a big job. This was declaration of ontological worth - worth rooted in being, not doing. And in Romans 8:15, Paul tells us that through Christ, we have received the same Spirit of adoption, and we too can cry "Abba, Father" - the intimate Aramaic word a child uses for their dad.

The Temptation - The Enemy Always Attacks Identity First

Every one of Satan's three temptations in Luke 4 begins with "If you are the Son of God…" - a direct assault on the identity just declared at the baptism. This is not coincidental. The enemy's primary strategy is never to argue theology. It is to make you doubt who you are. Jesus doesn't defend Himself with clever arguments. He doesn't prove anything. He simply quotes Scripture - three times, from Deuteronomy - and the attack collapses. The antidote to an identity under attack is the Word of God, internalized and ready. This is why Deuteronomy 6:4–9 commands parents to talk about God's words constantly - at home, on the road, morning and evening. Children who know Scripture have an anchor that the world cannot pull up.

Luke 4:18 - The Mission That Defines Our Outward Focus

When Jesus stands in the Nazareth synagogue and reads from Isaiah 61, He is not just announcing His agenda. He is doing something radical: in Jewish tradition, when a rabbi finished reading, he would sit down - and the whole room would wait in anticipation for his teaching. Jesus rolls up the scroll, sits down, and every eye is fixed on Him. Then He says: "Today this Scripture is fulfilled in your hearing." He is saying plainly: I am the one Isaiah wrote about. For families living out the mission of being outward-focused - this passage is the DNA. The Spirit of the Lord is on us. To bring good news to families that are poor, freedom to households that feel captive, sight to eyes that are blind to hope.

For the facilitator

This section carries one of the most freeing truths in the study: God declares our worth before we earn it, and the enemy attacks that identity first. Lead with the baptism box; it is the spiritual anchor for the night. You do not need to teach all three boxes evenly, so pick what stirs you and summarize the rest. Break it up by asking, "Where do you hear the words 'if you really were' whispered at you?" and let people answer honestly. Draw out a quiet member with a gentle "Does that ring true for you?" If someone in the group is steady in Scripture, this is a strong segment to hand them in a future week with your support.

Scripture Reading (10 min)
For the facilitator

Hearing these passages aloud lets the Father's "beloved" and Jesus' Scripture-armed answers wash over the room, so share the reading among several voices. Assign the passages first to avoid a scramble. The baptism and temptation are the essentials if you run short. Read the Father's words at the baptism slowly and let them hang in the air before moving on. A simple follow-up like, "How would it feel to hear that said over you?" makes it personal. Inviting a newer member or a teen to read one passage gently folds them in. Between sessions, you could text the group one of these verses to keep their identity anchored.

Group Activity - Identity Statements (10 min)

What Defines You?

Give each person 60 seconds to write down three things that most define their sense of worth right now (job title, parenting role, achievement, appearance, etc.).

Then ask: "If every one of those things disappeared tomorrow, who would you be?"

No one has to share - but invite anyone who wants to respond.

For the facilitator

This exercise gently exposes where people are quietly building their worth, which is exactly the wound Jesus heals tonight. Protect the no-pressure rule; the writing matters even when no one speaks. Give the full sixty seconds of silence so honesty has room. When you ask who they would be if it all vanished, do not fill the pause; the discomfort is doing holy work. Model vulnerability by sharing one of your own answers first. For a quiet member, "You do not have to share, but I would love to hear if you want" lowers the bar. Following up later about what someone wrote shows them they were truly seen.

Discussion (30 min)
  1. Family Before Jesus healed anyone or preached a single sermon, God said "You are my beloved Son - I am well pleased." What does it mean that God's approval came before any performance? How does that change how you parent?
  2. Family Every one of Satan's temptations started with "If you are the Son of God." The attack was on identity, not theology. Where do you see your family's identity being most attacked right now?
  3. Outward Jesus answered every temptation with Scripture from Deuteronomy - words He had internalized. What would it look like to help your children have Scripture "ready" in the same way?
  4. Family Jesus stood up in Nazareth and said He came to bring good news to the poor, freedom to the captive, sight to the blind. That's His family's mission statement. What is yours?
  5. Outward Hebrews says Jesus was tempted in every way we are. How does knowing that change how you bring your family's hardest struggles to Him?
For the facilitator

These questions move identity from theory to the dinner table, so let families speak from their own experience rather than reaching for the right answer. Ask, then wait; the most honest words usually come after the silence feels long. Follow-ups like "What does that look like at home?" keep it grounded. The questions about parenting can stir vulnerability, so handle them tenderly and never let one parent be made to feel they are failing. Draw out the quiet with "I would value your perspective on this." The Outward questions push the group toward neighbors, so guard their place. Remember what each person names, and ask about it when you check in this fortnight.

Closing Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Jesus, You knew who You were, and it held You through every attack. Give our families that same rootedness. When the world tells our children they are only as good as their grades, their performance, or their popularity. Let Your voice be louder. In Your name, Amen.
For the facilitator

This closing arms families to send a louder voice home with their children than the world's. Pray it slowly, as a real plea over real kids whose names you know. You might invite parents to silently picture one child as you pray, so the words become personal. Resist rushing to dismiss; let the weight settle. Encourage families to speak an identity blessing over their children this fortnight, perhaps at bedtime, and offer to share a simple wording. The minutes after, lingering and talking, are where the group becomes a family itself. In a future session, consider inviting a parent to lead this closing and pray over the group.

Session Four · Luke 5, 7–8 Bi-weekly

The God Who Sees the Outsider

In a world of boundaries, Jesus kept crossing them, and He still does through families like yours.

90 min
Luke 5, 7–8
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Jesus, You stopped for every person others walked past. Lepers, widows, the bleeding woman, the woman at the well. You saw them all. Train our eyes tonight. Help our families see the people around us the way You see them. Give us the courage to stop. Amen.
For the facilitator

Tonight's aim is eyes that stop for the overlooked, and this prayer asks God to train those eyes before the teaching begins. Read it as a genuine request, slowly enough that people picture actual faces they tend to walk past. The word "courage" is doing real work here, so let it land. Pause after the Amen rather than hurrying on. As people arrive, model the very thing you are praying for by noticing whoever seems quietest tonight and greeting them first. A simple "I was thinking of your family this week" text to someone on the edges of the group lives out this prayer between sessions.

Icebreaker (5 min)

"Who Made Your Family Feel Seen?"

Share: Tell about a time someone reached toward your family when you felt invisible, overwhelmed, or new to something. What did they do? A neighbor, a teacher, a church member. How did it change things for your family?

For the facilitator

Remembering when someone reached toward them warms the group and primes hearts to do the same for others. Gratitude stories bond a room quickly, so let them breathe a little even if it stretches the clock slightly. Go first with a moment your own family felt seen, naming the person specifically. If a household struggles to think of one, the prompt "Even something small counts" usually unlocks a memory. Watch for the family that goes quiet here; they may feel they have rarely been seen, so be gentle and follow up later. Next time you could invite a member to bring and lead the icebreaker, sharing their story first.

Background & Context

Why Touching a Leper Was Unthinkable

Under Levitical law (Leviticus 13–14), a person with leprosy was declared tamei - ceremonially unclean. They were required to live outside the city, tear their clothes, leave their hair loose, and cry "Unclean! Unclean!" as they walked so others could avoid them. Physical contact made the person they touched also unclean - socially, religiously, and practically contaminating. This wasn't mere social discomfort. It was full exclusion from family, community, worship, and economic life. Often for life.

When Jesus reaches out and touches the leper in Luke 5:13, He doesn't just heal him. He breaks a social and religious law so deeply embedded in Jewish culture that it would have caused audible gasps in every crowd. Jesus could have healed him with a word - from a distance. He chose to touch him. That touch said: you are not untouchable. You matter. I am not afraid of what you carry. For families today navigating conversations about who is "in" and who is "out" - in their schools, their neighborhoods, their political discourse - this one gesture says everything.

The Woman Who Wept - Extravagance as Theology

In Luke 7:36–50, a "sinful woman" (likely known in the community for sexual sin) enters the home of Simon the Pharisee - uninvited, unwelcome - and proceeds to weep over Jesus' feet, wipe them with her hair, and anoint them with expensive perfume. Simon's reaction is telling: "If this man were a prophet, he would know who this woman is." His logic was: holiness requires distance from sin. Jesus' response exposes the opposite logic entirely. He says the woman's extravagant love flows directly from her awareness of how much she has been forgiven. The more we understand what we've been forgiven of, the more we love - and the less we judge. This is the relational physics of grace, and it changes how families handle failure, shame, and restoration inside their own walls.

The Bleeding Woman - Jesus Stopped for One Person in a Crowd

The woman with the bleeding issue (Luke 8:43–48) had been ill for 12 years. Under Levitical law, her condition rendered her continuously unclean - meaning anyone she touched also became unclean. She had spent everything she had on physicians. She was broke, ritually excluded, and desperate. She reached through the crowd and touched Jesus' garment from behind - anonymously, hoping not to be noticed. Jesus stops in the middle of an urgent, life-or-death errand (Jairus's dying daughter awaits) and asks, "Who touched me?" His disciples are baffled: the crowd is pressing against you from all sides. But Jesus stopped for one unnamed, overlooked, excluded woman and spoke her dignity back into existence publicly: "Daughter, your faith has made you well." He called her "daughter." He gave her a family name. For families learning to be outward-focused - this is the standard Jesus set.

For the facilitator

These three stories all show Jesus crossing a line others would not, which is the heartbeat of the whole night. Do not feel you must cover all three evenly; lead with the one that grips you, perhaps the touch of the leper, and summarize the rest. Tell them as scandalous, beautiful stories rather than information. Break up the teaching with, "Who in our world today is treated as untouchable?" and let the room wrestle with it. Invite a quiet member in with "What strikes you about that?" If a member has a gift for storytelling or teaching, this is a fine segment to hand off in a coming week, prepping alongside them first.

Scripture Reading (10 min)
For the facilitator

Hearing these encounters read aloud lets the dignity Jesus restores echo in the room, so spread the passages across several voices. Assign them before you begin to keep things smooth. The leper and the bleeding woman are the essentials if time is tight. Read the moment Jesus says "Daughter" slowly; that one word is the whole point, and it deserves a pause. Ask afterward, "What would it have meant to be called that?" Inviting a teen or newer member to read one passage quietly draws them deeper in. Between sessions, you might send the group one of these stories with a line about who Jesus still stops for.

Group Activity - Who Do You See? (10 min)

👁 Name Someone Invisible

Each family privately writes the name of one person in their regular orbit they think might feel overlooked, invisible, or like they don't belong.

Don't share the name - but ask: "What would it cost you to cross the line and acknowledge that person this week?"

For the facilitator

This moves the night from admiring Jesus to imitating Him by naming one real, overlooked person. Keep the name private so people are honest rather than performing. Give quiet space to think; the first name that comes to mind is often the Spirit's nudge. The aim underneath is to turn conviction into a concrete step before everyone scatters. Write your own name down too, and let people see you take it seriously. For a quiet member, "You do not have to say who, just hold them in your mind" keeps it safe. When you check in this fortnight, gently ask whether they found a way to cross that line; the accountability is loving, not pressuring.

Discussion (30 min)
  1. Family Jesus could have healed the leper from a distance - He chose to touch him instead. Under Jewish law, that made Jesus ceremonially unclean. Why do you think He chose touch? What does that say to families who prefer to help from a safe distance?
  2. Outward The sinful woman washed Jesus' feet with her tears. Simon the Pharisee was horrified. Jesus said her extravagant love showed she had been forgiven much. Do you think your family's love for Jesus looks extravagant to people watching? Why or why not?
  3. Family The bleeding woman had been sick for 12 years and spent everything she had. When she touched Jesus, He stopped the whole crowd and called her "Daughter" - publicly restoring her. Has Jesus ever given your family a public restoration moment? How did that change you?
  4. Outward Jesus spoke to the woman at the well - alone, at noon, a Samaritan, a woman with a complicated history. He broke four social rules at once. What social rules does your family need to break to reach the people in your neighborhood who feel unseen?
  5. Family Isaiah says the Messiah would be "despised and rejected, a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief." How does it change your family's approach to suffering, knowing Jesus was specifically acquainted with rejection?
For the facilitator

These questions press families on whether they help from a safe distance or actually cross lines, so let them sit in that honestly. Ask, then wait; the most truthful answers come after the pause feels long. Use follow-ups like "What would crossing that line cost you?" to keep it concrete rather than abstract. Some answers may expose where a family feels stuck loving difficult people, so respond with grace, never judgment. Draw out the quiet with "I would love to hear how you see this." The Outward questions are the engine of the night, so protect their place. Note the neighbors people name, and ask about them when you connect this fortnight.

Closing Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Lord, You touched the untouchable and called the invisible by name. Show us who is lying at our gate: someone we pass every day without truly seeing. Give our families the courage to cross the line this week. In Your name, Amen.
For the facilitator

This closing turns the night's conviction into a sending, asking God to show families who is lying at their gate. Pray it expectantly, trusting He will bring a face to mind for each person. You might pause and let people silently name to God the person from the activity, then gather those into your prayer so no one feels alone in it. Do not rush the dismissal; lingering is where real care happens. Encourage the group to text one another midweek with a small win of someone they noticed. In a future session, you could invite a member to lead this closing and pray the sending over the group.

Session Five · Luke 9–10, 12 Bi-weekly

The Kingdom Upside Down

Jesus redefined greatness, success, and security, in ways that challenge every modern family.

90 min
Luke 9–10, 12
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Father, Your Kingdom runs upside down from everything we are taught to chase. Tonight, reorder our priorities. Quiet the noise of ambition and busyness. Help us hear what Mary heard: the one thing that cannot be taken away. Amen.
For the facilitator

The aim of this prayer is to quiet hurried hearts so families can hear a Kingdom that runs opposite to their calendars. Many will walk in frazzled, so read it slowly and let the line about ambition and busyness be a genuine exhale for the room. Resist rushing; the unhurried pace is itself part of the message. Let silence follow the Amen. As people gather, you might simply ask how their week has been and actually listen, modeling the unhurried attention you are praying for. A gentle midweek text inviting someone to pause and breathe with Jesus carries this prayer into the noise of their fortnight.

Icebreaker (5 min)

"Our Family's Busiest Week This Year"

Each family describes their most over-scheduled week this year - what was on the calendar? Then: In all that activity, how much intentional time with Jesus was scheduled? No guilt - just honest self-awareness as we enter this week's theme.

For the facilitator

Comparing busy weeks gets families laughing in recognition and opens the theme without anyone feeling preached at. Guard the no-guilt rule fiercely; the second the room feels judged, honesty shuts down. Go first and admit your own over-scheduled week, including the thin spot in your time with Jesus. Keep each family brief so the quieter ones are not waiting through long lists. Listen for the household that sounds genuinely stretched thin; a private word of encouragement later may matter more than anything said tonight. Next time you might hand the icebreaker to a member, asking them to share their own busy week first to set the tone.

Background & Context

Why the Disciples Argued About Greatness - and Why We Still Do

In Luke 9:46, the disciples argue about which of them is the greatest - on the same road where Jesus had just told them He was going to die. This wasn't stupidity. It was humanity. In the first century, social hierarchy was fixed and all-important. Positioning, honor, and status governed every relationship. The disciples had left everything to follow Jesus - it was completely natural to wonder what their sacrifice would earn them. Jesus' response is one of the most disorienting moments in the Gospels: He places a child in front of them and says, "Whoever receives this child in my name receives me." A child in ancient culture had no legal standing, no social status, no power. To say the child is the model of Kingdom greatness was not a sweet sentiment. It was a direct inversion of every cultural value they had been raised with.

Mary and Martha - The Most Misunderstood Passage in Luke

Most readings of Luke 10:38–42 make Martha the villain and Mary the hero. That misses the deeper point. In first-century Jewish culture, women were not permitted to sit at a rabbi's feet and be taught - that was reserved for male disciples. Martha was doing what any Jewish woman was expected to do: serve the guests. Mary was doing something culturally transgressive: she was positioning herself as a disciple. When Jesus says Mary has "chosen what is better," He is not condemning hospitality. He is defending Mary's right to learn - to be a disciple - and saying that sitting at His feet, knowing Him, hearing His voice, is the one thing that cannot be taken away. For families whose lives feel like one long to-do list, the question is not whether to serve. The question is whether knowing Jesus is protected in your schedule - or perpetually crowded out by good things.

The Rich Fool - The Parable That Cuts Deepest for Modern Families

In Luke 12:16–21, a man's land produces so abundantly that he faces a genuine logistical problem: where to store the surplus. His solution is completely logical by modern financial planning standards: tear down the old barns, build bigger ones, store everything, retire comfortably, and enjoy life. God's response: "You fool. Tonight your soul is required of you." The Greek word aphron - "fool" - in biblical wisdom literature describes not stupidity but a person who makes decisions as though God does not exist and eternity is not real. The man was not wicked. He was not lazy. He was financially prudent by every worldly measure. He simply forgot that life consists of more than the abundance of possessions - and that his soul had a timeline his calendar didn't show. For families building financial futures, this parable doesn't condemn saving. It asks: what are you building for - and for whom?

For the facilitator

These three passages reorder what families chase: greatness, attention, and security. Do not feel bound to teach all three evenly; lead with the one that convicts you most, perhaps Mary and Martha, and summarize the others. Note the fresh reading of Martha, who was not the villain, since it surprises people and opens grace. Break up the teaching with, "Where do you feel the pull to build bigger barns?" and let folks answer honestly. Draw out a quiet member with "What hits home for you here?" If a thoughtful member enjoys digging into context, this is a strong segment to hand them in a future week, preparing together first.

Scripture Reading (10 min)
For the facilitator

Hearing these passages aloud lets the upside-down Kingdom confront the room more gently than a lecture could, so share the reading across several voices. Assign the passages first so there is no scramble. The Mary and Martha scene and the Rich Fool are the essentials if time is short. Let the line "one thing is needed" hang in the air before moving on. A simple follow-up like, "What is your one thing this season?" makes it personal. Inviting a teen or newer member to read draws them in. Between sessions, you might text the group the Beatitudes with a note about whose blessing the world overlooks, keeping the theme alive.

Group Activity - Kingdom Audit (10 min)

What Is Your Family Building?

Give each family 90 seconds to list the top five things their household spends the most time, money, and energy on each week.

Then ask: "If Jesus looked at that list, what would He celebrate? What would He gently challenge?"

No judgment - this is between each family and God. Let a few share if they want.

For the facilitator

This audit gently surfaces what a household is actually building its life around, which is the heart of the night. Guard the no-judgment frame so families are honest rather than defensive; the point is friendly conviction, not shame. Give the full ninety seconds for the list, and let the question about what Jesus would celebrate come before what He would challenge, so grace leads. Share one item from your own list to model openness. For a quiet member, "You are welcome to keep yours private" keeps it safe. When you connect this fortnight, you might gently ask whether they made one small reorder; that follow-up turns a moment into a habit and shows you remembered.

Discussion (30 min)
  1. Family The disciples argued about who was greatest - while Jesus was predicting His death. Jesus placed a child in front of them as the answer. What quality of a child does your family most need to recover right now: dependence, wonder, simplicity, or trust?
  2. Family Jesus told Martha that one thing was needed - and Mary chose it. What is crowding out the "one essential thing" in your household this season?
  3. Outward The Rich Fool's decisions were financially reasonable - save more, plan well, take life easy. Jesus called him a fool because he made decisions as if God didn't exist. How does your family make financial decisions differently because of Jesus?
  4. Family The Beatitudes say blessed are the poor in spirit, the mourning, the meek. These are not people the world celebrates. How does raising children in a Kingdom-upside-down value system look different from what your neighborhood models?
  5. Outward Paul learned contentment "in whatever state I am." He learned it - it wasn't natural. What is one area where your family is still learning contentment rather than striving for more?
For the facilitator

These questions ask families to weigh their real priorities against the Kingdom, so let answers come from honest life rather than tidy theory. Ask, then wait; people need room to admit what is crowding out the one thing. Follow-ups like "What would it take to protect that?" keep it practical. The questions about money and contentment can touch nerves, so receive every answer without a flicker of judgment. Draw out the quiet with "I would love your honest take." The Outward questions stretch families toward different choices their neighbors will notice, so keep them. Remember what each person names, and ask about it warmly when you check in this fortnight.

Closing Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Lord Jesus, You said the greatest in Your Kingdom is the one who becomes like a child. Make our families great in the right way: humble, dependent, full of wonder. Reorder what we are building. In Your name, Amen.
For the facilitator

This closing asks God to reorder what families are building, turning the night's audit into a real surrender. Pray it without rushing, as a genuine yielding of calendars and ambitions. You might invite people to silently hand God one thing they sense He is challenging, then gather those into your prayer so the surrender feels shared, not solitary. Let stillness follow, and resist the dash to the door. Encourage families to protect one unhurried time with Jesus this fortnight and to text the group how it went. In a future session, you could invite a member to write and lead this closing, growing their ownership of the group's prayer life.

Session Six · Luke 15–16 Bi-weekly

Radical Grace & Forgiveness

The Father was already running before the son rehearsed his apology, and He runs toward every family.

90 min
Luke 15–16
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Father, You are the father who runs. Before we could get our speech together, You were already sprinting toward us. Tonight, let that grace sink into every family in this room. Remind us what we have been forgiven, so we can forgive. Amen.
For the facilitator

This prayer sets grace as the air the whole night breathes, since we forgive only out of what we have been forgiven. Read it tenderly; some in the room carry guilt or a broken relationship, and the image of the running Father may move them deeply. Linger on "before we could get our speech together," and let the silence after the Amen hold anyone who is tearful. Be ready for emotion tonight and welcome it warmly. As people arrive, a simple word that they are wanted here lives out the Father's run. A grace-filled text midweek to someone wrestling with forgiveness can carry this prayer into a hard week.

Icebreaker (5 min)

"The Return Story"

Share: Tell about a time someone in your family came back - after distance, a hard season, or an estrangement. What was the reunion like? Or share: is there a relationship in your family where you're still watching the road - still waiting? This doesn't need to be resolved to be shared.

For the facilitator

This icebreaker is tender, inviting stories of return or of still watching the road, so hold the room gently. Make clear, as the prompt does, that nothing needs to be resolved to be shared; that permission frees people to be real. Go first with something honest of your own, and never rush a person who gets emotional. If a family is still waiting on someone, simply thank them and assure them the group will pray and watch the road with them. Watch for who carries unspoken pain tonight and follow up privately later. Because this one is sensitive, keep leading it yourself rather than handing it off, until you know the group can hold it well.

Background & Context

The Prodigal Son - What Every Word Meant in Its Cultural Context

The parable in Luke 15:11–32 is so familiar that we miss how catastrophic the opening line was to its original audience. A Jewish son asking for his inheritance while his father was still alive was not merely rude - it was a formal declaration that he wished his father were already dead. In Middle Eastern culture, the community's expected response would have been a formal ceremony of excommunication. The son would be cut off completely. The shame was not just personal; it fell on the entire family and extended community.

What the father does next is equally stunning. When the son returns, the text says he saw him "while he was still a long way off" - which means the father had been watching the road. He had not moved on. Then he ran. In ancient Middle Eastern culture, a man of means and dignity did not run in public - it required lifting your robe, exposing your legs, which was considered shameful. The father shamed himself publicly to reach his son before the village could shame him. He covered his son's disgrace with his own. This is not a sweet story about parental love. This is the most precise picture of the atonement in the entire Gospels.

The Older Brother - The Most Dangerous Character in the Parable

Most families identify with the prodigal. But the older brother is arguably more relevant to faithful churchgoing households. He never left. He obeyed every command. He worked faithfully for years. And when grace was extended to his wayward brother, he was furious. He tells the father: "I have been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders, yet you never gave me a party." The language he uses for his relationship with his father is the language of a servant, not a son. He had been in the house all along - and had never understood that he was loved, not just employed. Many faithful, religious families are living in the house with a servant's heart - doing all the right things, but never resting in the Father's love. The father's response is tender: "Son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours." The invitation to grace was open to both brothers all along.

Lazarus at the Gate - The Person We Walk Past Every Day

Luke 16:19–31 is one of the most uncomfortable passages in all of Scripture. The rich man is not described as cruel or oppressive. He does not abuse Lazarus or drive him away. He simply never noticed him. Lazarus lay at his gate every single day - covered in sores, hungry, invisible. The rich man's sin was not active wickedness. It was persistent, comfortable unawareness. After death, the rich man knows Lazarus by name - he had known who he was all along. He had simply never let that knowledge become action. For families with comfortable homes in comfortable neighborhoods - this parable is a direct question: Who is lying at our gate right now that we have stopped seeing?

For the facilitator

This is some of the richest teaching in the study, showing the Father's costly, running grace and the two ways we miss it. Lead with the prodigal box and the shocking image of the father shaming himself to reach his son; that picture preaches itself. The older brother often lands hardest on faithful, churchgoing families, so do not skip it. Break up the teaching with, "Which brother do you relate to more right now?" and let people answer honestly. Draw out a quiet member with "What surprises you here?" If a member has a teaching gift, this is a wonderful segment to hand them in a future week, walking through the prep together first.

Scripture Reading (10 min)
For the facilitator

Reading the prodigal aloud together can be quietly powerful, so share the passages across several voices and let the story unfold. Assign the readings first to keep it smooth. The prodigal and the rich man with Lazarus are the essentials if time is short. Read the father's welcome slowly; the robe, the ring, and the party deserve to land. A simple follow-up like, "Where do you find yourself in that story?" makes it personal. Inviting a teen or newer member to read gently includes them. Between sessions, you might text the group Romans 5:8 with a line that grace came while we were still a long way off, keeping the theme warm.

Group Activity - The Father's Run (10 min)

🏃 What Did the Father See?

The father saw his son "while he was still a long way off." That means he was watching and waiting. He must have looked every day.

Ask each family: "Is there someone in your family or close circle who is 'a long way off' right now? Are you watching for them? What would running toward them look like this week?"

For the facilitator

This activity turns the parable inward, asking each family to name someone who is a long way off and to consider watching the road for them. Keep it tender; for some, the person is a child, a parent, or a friend who has caused real pain, so guard against any pressure to forgive on a timeline. The aim underneath is to move grace from admired to attempted. Share your own watching, if you can, to model it. For a quiet member, "You can simply hold them before God" keeps it safe. When you check in this fortnight, gently ask whether they took one small step toward that person; the loving follow-up shows you remembered their burden.

Discussion (30 min)
  1. Family The son's request for his inheritance while his father was still alive was essentially saying "I wish you were dead." The father gave it anyway. How does that change your understanding of what grace actually costs?
  2. Family The older brother said "I have been slaving for you." He described their relationship as slavery, not sonship. Are there areas where your family relates to God more like employees than beloved children?
  3. Outward The rich man knew Lazarus by name - he had seen him every day. The sin was not cruelty. It was comfortable unawareness. Who is your family's Lazarus? Someone at your gate you know by name but haven't truly seen?
  4. Family Romans 5:8 says God demonstrated His love for us "while we were still sinners." Not after we cleaned up. Not after we got it together. How does receiving that change how you extend grace in your home?
  5. Outward Ephesians says we are saved by grace so that we can do the good works God prepared in advance for us. What good works do you think God prepared specifically for your family in your neighborhood?
For the facilitator

These questions press grace into real homes and real estrangements, so let answers come slowly and honestly. Ask, then wait; the deepest sharing often follows a long pause. Use follow-ups like "What makes that hard?" rather than rushing to fix anything. The questions about relating to God as servant or son, and about a family's own Lazarus, can stir vulnerability, so respond with gentleness and never judgment. Draw out the quiet with "I would value how you see this." The Outward questions point families toward good works in their neighborhood, so protect them. Note the names and burdens people share, and ask about them tenderly when you connect this fortnight.

Closing Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Gracious God, You gave us the best robe, the ring, and the party, before we deserved any of it. Help us extend that same outrageous grace in our homes this week. And help us see who is lying at our gate that we have stopped noticing. In Jesus' name, Amen.
For the facilitator

This closing sends families home to extend the very grace they received, and to open their eyes to the Lazarus at their gate. Pray it warmly, as a blessing over households learning to forgive. You might invite people to silently receive the Father's grace for themselves first, before they are asked to give it away, then gather that into your prayer. Let the room stay still afterward; some may need a quiet moment. Encourage the group to text one another a word of grace this fortnight. In a future session, you could invite a member who has known the Father's welcome to lead this closing and pray it over the group.

Session Seven · Luke 19–23 Bi-weekly

Road to the Cross

Jesus walked toward Jerusalem knowing exactly what was waiting, and He kept walking. For us.

90 min
Luke 19–23
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Jesus, You set Your face toward Jerusalem and did not turn back. You endured Gethsemane, the cross, and death fully. And You did it for every family in this room. We receive that tonight, not just as doctrine but as a personal gift. Amen.
For the facilitator

This is the most solemn night in the study, and the prayer moves the cross from doctrine to a personal gift. Read it slowly and with weight, letting the line "for every family in this room" be heard by each person. Resist any rush; reverence is the right pace here. A long silence after the Amen is welcome, not awkward, so let it breathe. As people arrive, a quiet, unhurried welcome sets the tone for a sacred evening. This fortnight you might invite the group to sit for a few minutes at the foot of the cross in their own homes, and to text one another a word of thanks for what Jesus carried.

Icebreaker (5 min)

"A Time You Kept Going Anyway"

Share: Tell about a time you or your family faced something hard and kept going anyway - when giving up would have been easier. What made you press through? This opens the theme of Jesus walking toward Jerusalem with full knowledge of what was ahead.

For the facilitator

Stories of pressing through hardship prepare hearts to grasp Jesus walking knowingly toward the cross. Some families will name genuinely heavy seasons, so receive each with care and never rush past pain to get to the lesson. Go first with a time your own family kept going, including what it cost. Keep each family fairly brief so the quieter ones are not left waiting. Listen for the household that sounds weary or still in the hard thing; a private word of encouragement later will matter. Given how tender tonight is, keep leading this one yourself for now, but you might invite a steady member to share their story first to set the tone.

Background & Context

The Triumphal Entry - A Deliberate Coronation Statement

When Jesus enters Jerusalem on a donkey in Luke 19:28–44, it was not a humble, unplanned moment. It was a precise, deliberate fulfillment of Zechariah 9:9, written 500 years earlier: "Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion! Shout aloud, O daughter of Jerusalem! Behold, your king is coming to you; righteous and having salvation is he, humble and mounted on a donkey." Every Jewish person watching would have recognized the reference immediately. This was a coronation procession - a royal claim. The crowds spread their cloaks on the road, the ancient equivalent of a red carpet, reserved for kings. They cried "Hosanna" - save us now - the same word used in Psalm 118 for the coming deliverer.

But then, at the very height of the celebration, Luke records something unique to his Gospel: Jesus weeps over Jerusalem. He sees the city celebrating His arrival and He weeps - because He knows they do not understand what kind of King He is, or what peace He has actually come to bring. They expected a military deliverer. He came to be a sacrificial one. This is the gap between what we want Jesus to be for our families and who He actually is. Knowing Jesus means encountering Him as He is, not as we've shaped Him.

Gethsemane - The Most Human Moment in the Gospels

In Luke 22:39–46, Jesus goes to the Garden of Gethsemane and prays with such intensity that Luke - the physician - records a medical detail found nowhere else in the Gospels: His sweat became like great drops of blood falling to the ground. This condition, known as hematidrosis, occurs under extreme psychological and physical stress - when capillaries burst near sweat glands. This was not theater. This was a man in genuine agony. He prays: "Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me." Jesus wanted another way. He asked for it. And then He said: "Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done." The most important prayer in human history was one of surrender. And it was prayed while sweating blood, alone, while His friends slept. For families who bring their hardest moments to God - Gethsemane says: bring everything. He already went there first.

The Cross - What Was Actually Happening

Crucifixion was the most degrading form of execution in the Roman world - reserved for slaves, insurrectionists, and the lowest of criminals. It was designed not just to kill but to utterly shame. Roman citizens could not be crucified by law. Isaiah 53, written 700 years before, described it with eerie precision: "He was pierced for our transgressions; He was crushed for our iniquities." On the cross, Luke records three sayings unique to his Gospel: Jesus asks forgiveness for those crucifying Him ("Father, forgive them; they know not what they do"), He offers paradise to a repentant criminal beside Him, and He commits His spirit to the Father. Even in death, Jesus was doing what He had done His entire ministry - forgiving, welcoming outsiders, and trusting the Father. Nothing about who He was changed at the cross. Everything about our access to God did.

For the facilitator

This is the theological heart of the whole study, and it deserves to be told reverently rather than covered quickly. Lead with Gethsemane and the cross; the surrendered prayer and the three sayings are the soul of the night. You need not detail every box, so choose what moves you most and let it carry weight. A quiet, "What does it mean to you that Jesus went there first?" invites the room in without forcing words. Honor any silence as worship. If a member walks closely with the Lord and can handle holy ground gently, this is a meaningful segment to hand them in the future, preparing prayerfully together first.

Scripture Reading (10 min)
For the facilitator

Hearing the passion read aloud is itself an act of worship, so share these passages across several voices and read unhurried. Assign the readings first to keep the moment unbroken. The Gethsemane prayer and the crucifixion are the essentials if time is short. Read slowly and let painful lines land; do not narrate over them. Rather than a chatty follow-up, you might simply invite a moment of silence after the cross. Inviting a teen or newer member to read one passage gently includes them on a holy night. Between sessions, you could text the group Isaiah 53 with a line that Jesus was pierced for them, keeping the cross near.

Group Activity - Three Sayings (10 min)

Only in Luke

Three things Jesus said from the cross appear only in Luke's Gospel. Read them aloud as a group:

  • "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." (Luke 23:34)
  • "Today you will be with me in paradise." (Luke 23:43)
  • "Father, into your hands I commit my spirit." (Luke 23:46)

Ask: "If these were the last words your family heard from Jesus, what would you want your response to be?"

For the facilitator

Reading Jesus' three sayings aloud lets forgiveness, welcome, and trust echo in the room on the night they matter most. Read them slowly, perhaps with a pause between each, and let the weight settle before you ask the question. The aim underneath is a personal response to the cross, so do not press for clever answers; a few honest words or even a tear is enough. For a quiet member, "You can simply sit with these" keeps it safe. Consider letting different voices read the three lines, which draws people in. When you connect this fortnight, you might ask which saying stayed with them, showing you remembered the sacred moment together.

Discussion (30 min)
  1. Family Jesus entered Jerusalem to crowds shouting praise - and then wept over the city. He could see both the celebration and the coming destruction at once. How do you hold joy and grief together in your family when both are present at the same time?
  2. Family In Gethsemane, Jesus asked for another way - and then surrendered. He was fully honest with the Father about what He wanted, and fully surrendered to what the Father willed. What does honest, surrendered prayer look like in your home?
  3. Outward Isaiah 53 was written 700 years before the crucifixion. Read verses 4-6 alongside Luke 23. How does that level of prophetic precision affect your confidence in Scripture for your children?
  4. Family Luke - the physician - uniquely records that Jesus sweat drops of blood in Gethsemane. This is a real medical condition under extreme stress. Jesus was not performing suffering. He was in it. How does knowing that change how you pray in your family's hardest moments?
  5. Outward Hebrews says Jesus "endured the cross, scorning its shame, for the joy set before him." The joy was us. How do you want your family to live differently this week because of that?
For the facilitator

These questions invite families into honest, surrendered prayer and into the wonder that the joy set before Jesus was them. Let answers come slowly; the cross does not lend itself to quick replies. Use gentle follow-ups like "What makes surrender hard for you?" rather than rushing. The questions about Gethsemane and the family's hardest moments may surface real pain, so receive every word with tenderness and never judgment. Draw out the quiet with "I would be honored to hear your thoughts." The Outward questions ask how the cross reshapes daily life, so keep them. Note what people carry tonight, and follow up tenderly this fortnight; some may need a personal check-in.

Closing Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Lord of the cross, You prayed not My will but Yours. And that surrender changed everything. Teach our families to pray that prayer in our hardest moments. May the cross be as real at our dinner tables this week as it is in this room right now. In Your name, Amen.
For the facilitator

This closing teaches families the prayer of surrender and sends the cross home with them. Pray it slowly and reverently, as the holy moment it is. You might invite people to silently pray their own "not my will but Yours" over one hard thing, then gather those surrenders into your prayer so no one carries it alone. Let deep stillness follow; do not rush to dismiss on a night like this. Encourage households to keep the cross near this fortnight, perhaps a shared meal of thanks, and to text one another. In a future session, you could invite a member who prays with depth to lead this closing over the group.

Session Eight · Luke 24 · Final Session Bi-weekly

He Is Risen - Now What?

The resurrection doesn't just change what we believe, it changes how every family lives from this day forward.

90 min
Full group
Luke 24 · 1 Cor 15 · Acts 1
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Leader reads aloud:Risen Jesus, we began this study wanting to know You. Tonight we close it. And we do not close it by saying goodbye. We close it by stepping into what You commissioned: go. Be witnesses. Starting on our street. Fill us with the same Spirit that raised You from the dead. Amen.
For the facilitator

This final opening reframes the night not as a goodbye but as a sending, which is the spiritual aim of session eight. Read it with joy and expectancy, letting the room feel that something is beginning, not ending. The mood tonight is both celebratory and a little tender as the group closes, so hold both. Pause after the Amen and let gratitude settle. As people arrive, name out loud how glad you are for the journey you have shared; that warmth blesses everyone. Because the group will scatter after tonight, this is the moment to begin talking about how you will stay connected, perhaps a shared meal or a group thread that outlives the study.

Icebreaker - Index Card Return (10 min)

📇 Return of the Index Cards

Facilitator returns the index cards written in Session 1. Each family reads aloud: the one word they used for where they were with Jesus then, and the one hope they had for this study. Then share: What changed? What surprised you? What did God do in your family over these eight sessions?

This is the moment the whole study has been building toward. Give it time. Every family deserves to be heard.

For the facilitator

Returning the cards is the emotional payoff of eight sessions, so protect real time for it and do not let it get squeezed. The aim is for every family to witness their own growth and to be heard by the group. Read your own card first to model honesty. When a family shares what changed, receive it warmly and let others affirm them; this is where the group celebrates one another. Some may feel little changed, so reassure them that showing up faithfully is its own fruit. Listen for the threads of friendship that have formed; name them, and use this moment to spark plans for how the group will keep meeting beyond tonight.

Background & Context

The Empty Tomb - Why "He Is Not Here" Changes Everything

When the women arrive at the tomb on the first day of the week, Luke 24:1–12 records their confusion. They find the stone rolled away. The body is gone. Two angels ask: "Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here, but has risen." In the first century, the testimony of women was not accepted in a court of law. If the early church were inventing the resurrection story, they would never have made women the first witnesses - it would have undermined their credibility with every Jewish and Roman audience. The fact that all four Gospels record women as the primary witnesses to the empty tomb is itself a mark of historical authenticity. No fabricator would have written it that way.

The resurrection of Jesus is the hinge point of all human history. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 15:17: "If Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile and you are still in your sins." He does not soften this. He does not say the resurrection is a metaphor or a spiritual symbol. He says it is either historically real or our faith is worthless. This is not a story about hope as a feeling. It is a claim about what literally happened on a Sunday morning outside Jerusalem - and it changes everything about how families live, grieve, hope, and die.

The Road to Emmaus - Jesus Hiding in Plain Sight

Luke 24:13–35 is one of the most beloved passages in the New Testament. Two disciples walk away from Jerusalem - walking away from the community, away from the hope they had invested in Jesus. They are devastated. A stranger joins them. He walks with them, listens to their grief, and then, beginning with Moses, explains from all the Scriptures why the Messiah had to suffer and enter His glory. They arrive at their destination and the stranger acts as though He will continue. They have to invite Him in. He sits at their table. He takes bread, gives thanks, breaks it - and their eyes are opened. He vanishes. And they say to each other: "Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road?"

This is Luke's final gift to every family in this study: Jesus walks with us on our hardest roads - often unrecognized - explaining Scripture, drawing near, waiting to be invited in. And He is most clearly revealed at the breaking of bread - at the table. For a study built around families and dinner tables, this cannot be coincidence.

Acts 1:8 - The Commission That Still Belongs to Every Family

Luke wrote both the Gospel of Luke and the Book of Acts. The final words of Luke lead directly into Acts 1:8: "You will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth." Jerusalem was where they were standing. Their neighborhood. Their city. The commission began with the block they already lived on. For every family in this group, the Great Commission does not start with a mission trip. It starts with your street. It starts with your neighbor whose name you don't know yet, the family at your kids' school that is falling apart, the coworker you walk past every day. The resurrection is not the end of Luke's story. It is the beginning of yours.

For the facilitator

This closing teaching ties the whole study together: the resurrection is real, Jesus walks our hardest roads, and the commission starts on our own street. Lead with the empty tomb's historical weight and the Emmaus table; both speak powerfully to a study built around family dinner tables. You need not cover every box, so choose what stirs you and let it land. Ask, "Where has Jesus walked with you unrecognized this season?" and let people answer. Draw out the quiet with "What will you carry from these eight weeks?" If a member has grown into teaching across the study, this is a fitting final segment to hand them, celebrating their growth as you prepare together.

Keep going

This study is built on a single mission: helping your family know Jesus and stay rooted in Him, day by day. The eight sessions end here, but a daily relationship with Him doesn't have to.

Scripture Reading (10 min)
For the facilitator

Reading the resurrection and the commission aloud together is a joyful way to close the study, so share these passages across many voices. Assign them first to keep things smooth. The empty tomb and Acts 1:8 are the essentials if time runs short. Read "He is not here, but has risen" with the wonder it deserves, and let it ring. A simple follow-up like, "What does it change that this really happened?" makes it personal. This is a fitting night to invite several members who have grown in confidence to read, celebrating how far they have come. Beyond tonight, you might keep a group thread alive by sharing a verse a week so the Word stays among you.

Group Activity - Index Card Return (10 min)

Then and Now

Return the index cards from Session 1. Give families 2 minutes to read what they wrote.

Invite anyone who wants to share: "What word did you write then? What word would you write now? What changed?"

This is the emotional anchor of the final session. Give it space. Don't rush it.

For the facilitator

Comparing the word they wrote then with the word they would write now lets families name God's work in their own hands, which is the heart of this final night. Give the full two minutes and resist filling the silence; people need room to feel the distance traveled. Invite, never require, sharing, and celebrate each word offered. For someone who senses little change, "Faithfully showing up is its own fruit" is a gentle, true word. This is also the moment to cement connection: as families share, you might ask how they want to keep encouraging one another after the study ends, and put a concrete next gathering on the calendar before everyone leaves.

Discussion (30 min)
  1. Family The women were the first witnesses to the resurrection - in a culture where women's testimony wasn't legally valid. Why would God choose witnesses whose testimony couldn't be used in court? What does that say about how the Kingdom works?
  2. Family The disciples on the Emmaus road were walking away from Jerusalem - giving up. Jesus joined them on a road headed the wrong direction. Has Jesus ever met your family on a road headed the wrong way? What happened?
  3. Outward Paul lists eyewitnesses to the resurrection in 1 Corinthians 15 - "most of whom are still alive." He was writing to people who could go check. How does the historical case for the resurrection affect how confidently you talk about Jesus with your neighbors?
  4. Family Acts 1:8 says "you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." Jerusalem was their own street. What is one step your family will take on your street in the next two weeks?
  5. Outward Revelation 21 says God will make everything new - no more death, mourning, crying, or pain. He is making all things new. Where does your family most need that renewal right now - and how can you participate in it?
For the facilitator

This final discussion sends families out as witnesses, beginning with their own street, so steer toward concrete next steps rather than tidy conclusions. Ask, then wait; let people name a real first move. Follow-ups like "Who specifically comes to mind?" turn intention into action. Some may grieve that the group is ending, so make space to honor what these weeks have meant. Draw out the quiet with "I would love to hear your one step." The Outward questions are the whole point tonight, so give them weight. As people commit to a step on their street, invite the group to check on one another over the next fortnight, keeping the friendships and the mission alive past the final session.

Final Closing Prayer (Full Group · 10 min)
Leader reads aloud:Lord, You are risen. That changes everything: our fear, our grief, our ordinary Tuesday mornings. Send every family in this room out as witnesses. Not because we have it figured out, but because You are alive and You are with us. to the ends of the earth, starting with our block. Amen.
For the facilitator

This final prayer is the sending of the whole study, so give it the ten full minutes and make it a shared, full-group moment rather than a quick wrap-up. Consider inviting members to pray aloud, even one sentence, or to name the street or neighbor they feel sent to; praying for one another here knits the group together as it closes. Celebrate what God has done over these weeks before you pray. Let the room linger afterward; do not let the study simply dissolve at the door. Then make connection concrete: confirm the next time you will gather, swap numbers if needed, and send everyone out knowing this is a beginning, not an ending.

Small Group Study

Between Sessions

Homework, reading prep, and playlists for the weeks between each gathering

Playlists
Reading prep
Homework
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After Session 1
Getting Ready for the Announced Savior
After Session 2
Getting Ready for Identity and Temptation
After Session 3
Getting Ready for the God Who Sees
After Session 4
Getting Ready for the Kingdom Upside Down
After Session 5
Getting Ready for Radical Grace
After Session 6
Getting Ready for Road to the Cross
After Session 7
Getting Ready for He Is Risen
After Session 8
Where to Go From Here
After Session 1 Between Sessions

Getting Ready for Session 2

The Announced Savior

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Homework and Reflection

3-Day Exercise: "What Does Jesus Want My Family to Know?"

How to do it: Pick any 3 evenings this week. Each evening takes about 15 minutes at the dinner table or before bed.

Day 1 - Ask the Question

After dinner, each person answers out loud: "If Jesus could tell our family one thing right now, what do you think it would be?" No wrong answers. Write each response down. Parents go last.

Day 2 - Read and Reflect

Read Luke 1:1-4 together. Luke says he wrote so that we could have certainty about Jesus. Ask: "What is one thing about Jesus that our family is certain about? What is something we are still figuring out?"

Day 3 - Pray It Back

Look at what you wrote on Days 1 and 2. Have one family member pray it back to God using those actual words.

Prepare for Next Session

Read and bring your thoughts

  • Read Luke 1:26-38 - the Annunciation. Notice how Mary responds to the impossible.
    Luke 1:26-38
  • Read Luke 2:1-20 - the Birth. Who does God tell first, and why?
    Luke 2:1-20
  • Optional: Isaiah 9:6-7 - written 700 years before the birth.
    Isaiah 9:6-7
After Session 2 Between Sessions

Getting Ready for Session 3

Identity and Temptation

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Homework and Reflection

3-Day Exercise: "Say Yes Like Mary"

Day 1 - Find Your Impossible Thing

Each person finishes: "The thing God might be asking our family to do that feels impossible right now is ___."

Day 2 - Read the Magnificat Aloud

Read Luke 1:46-55 and 1 Samuel 2:1-10 together. Ask: "Can our family say yes to something before we see the outcome?"

Day 3 - Write Your Family's Yes

Write one sentence: "God, we say yes to ___." Post it where you will see it before Session 3.

Prepare for Next Session

Read and bring your thoughts

  • Read Luke 3:21-22 - the Baptism. Notice what God says before Jesus has done anything.
    Luke 3:21-22
  • Read Luke 4:1-13 - the Temptation. Notice every attack begins with "If you are..."
    Luke 4:1-13
  • Optional: Ephesians 1:3-8 - identity in Christ settled before the world began.
    Ephesians 1:3-8
After Session 3 Between Sessions

Getting Ready for Session 4

The God Who Sees

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Homework and Reflection

3-Day Exercise: "I Am Beloved"

Day 1 - Name the Voices

Ask each person: "What is one message you hear regularly about your worth?" Write them down. Ask: "Is any of this what God says about you?"

Day 2 - Read and Replace

Read Ephesians 1:3-8 slowly. For each message from Day 1, find a replacement from the passage. Write them on a new piece of paper and keep it.

Day 3 - Speak It Over Each Other

Each person speaks one identity statement over each family member: "[Name], God says you are ___."

Prepare for Next Session

Read and bring your thoughts

  • Read Luke 5:12-16 - Jesus touches a leper. Why touch instead of just speaking a word?
    Luke 5:12-16
  • Read Luke 7:36-50 - a sinful woman weeps at Jesus' feet.
    Luke 7:36-50
  • Optional: James 2:1-9 - do not show favoritism.
    James 2:1-9
After Session 4 Between Sessions

Getting Ready for Session 5

The Kingdom Upside Down

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Homework and Reflection

3-Day Exercise: "Stop and See"

Day 1 - Name Someone Invisible

Name one person in your regular orbit who might feel overlooked. Write their name. Pray for them for 60 seconds.

Day 2 - Cross the Line

Do something intentional for that person in person - not digital.

Day 3 - Debrief Together

What did it cost you? What did you feel? What did you learn about Jesus?
Bring to Session 5: Your story of what happened.

Prepare for Next Session

Read and bring your thoughts

After Session 5 Between Sessions

Getting Ready for Session 6

Radical Grace

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Homework and Reflection

3-Day Exercise: "Kingdom Audit"

Day 1 - Audit Your Time

List the top 5 things that consumed your collective time in the past two weeks. Ask: "What would someone say our family values most?"

Day 2 - Audit Your Money

Look at last month's spending. What does it reveal about your values? Write one thing you're proud of and one to change.

Day 3 - Write a Kingdom Intention

Write: "One thing we will do differently to align our family with Kingdom values is ___." Post it visibly.

Prepare for Next Session

Read and bring your thoughts

After Session 6 Between Sessions

Getting Ready for Session 7

Road to the Cross

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Homework and Reflection

3-Day Exercise: "The Father's Posture"

Day 1 - Where Is Forgiveness Overdue?

Each person privately names someone they haven't fully forgiven. Ask: "What is the cost of holding on? What would it cost to let go?"

Day 2 - Practice the Run

Choose one relationship where grace is overdue. One person initiates - without waiting for an apology first. Say: "I choose to run toward you."

Day 3 - Who Is Your Lazarus?

Name one person at your "gate." Decide one concrete thing your family will do for them before Session 7.

Prepare for Next Session

Read and bring your thoughts

  • Read Luke 19:28-44 - the Triumphal Entry and Jesus weeping.
    Luke 19:28-44
  • Read Luke 22:39-46 - Gethsemane.
    Luke 22:39-46
  • Read Luke 23:26-49 - the Crucifixion. Notice the three things unique to Luke's account.
    Luke 23:26-49
  • Optional: Isaiah 53:1-12 - read it before opening Luke 22-23.
    Isaiah 53:1-12
After Session 7 Between Sessions

Getting Ready for Session 8

He Is Risen

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Homework and Reflection

3-Day Exercise: "Gethsemane Surrender"

Day 1 - Name What You Are Carrying

Read Luke 22:39-46 slowly. Each person writes one thing they're carrying that feels too heavy.

Day 2 - Pray It Honestly, Then Surrender

First, total honesty: "Father, I want ___, this is hard." Then surrender: "But not my will - yours."

Day 3 - Optional Family Communion

Use bread and juice. Read Luke 22:19-20. Break and pass together. Say: "We remember what You did. We trust You with what we carry."
Bring to Session 8: Your index card from Session 1.

Prepare for Next Session

Read and bring your thoughts

After Session 8 Between Sessions

Where to Go From Here

Families Knowing Jesus

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Going Forward: Staying Rooted

Practices to Carry Forward as a Family

Practice 1 - Read Your Index Card

Read what you wrote at the start. Ask: "What word would we write now? What changed in our home?" Write the new word on the back. Keep it somewhere visible.

Practice 2 - Write Your Family Commission

Write and post three things: (1) One inward practice you will protect. (2) One community commitment. (3) One outward person or household you are committing to pursue this year.

Practice 3 - Stay Connected

Don't let the group dissolve. Decide together: will you continue meeting? Try a new study? Serve together? The relationships built here are the point - protect them.

Continue in the Word

Keep reading and growing

  • Read Romans 8:9-11 - the same Spirit that raised Jesus lives in you.
    Romans 8:9-11
  • Read John 20:19-22 - "As the Father has sent me, I am sending you."
    John 20:19-22

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